Saturday, July 02, 2005
Haha, being a girlfriend is stranger than i thought.... Lol. For one thing, what mummy says abt guys shying away from already taken girls and the detrimental effect on my social circle seems totally untrue! Quite the reverse in fact!! Hahaha
Of course, i think some guys won't ask me to dance if i stood leaning against You Yi with his arms around me - which we did during fiesta - but i say some coz one guy actually did!! Haha! How 'da4 dan3'!! *grinz* i feel closer to my friends even... coz they'd tease me, advise me & generally look out for me in a way that's amazingly sweet... :) :) Take colin for example: we were sitting in front of the fan during fiesta, cooling off, and he hooked both his forefingers together and tilted his head towards you yi, in a silent question asking if we were together. Just as silently, i nodded and he immediately stuck his hand out at you yi and went "Hi, I'm Colin!" in such an abrupt manner tt i laughed! *tickled* cute ;)
Then there's peter, porshee, kenneth and geri, who sat with me during dinner at Long Johns. Curiously enough, they told me more than i told them!! Like... Geri n Porshee thought tt Kenneth and i had this 'thing' going... And that all of them thought eddie n i were attached or smthing... Both of which they felt was quite safe to impart to me now that i'm definitely with someone else! (gee thanks..) :P Even Don, my ex-branch manager had half an hour of advise to help me 'handle' a guy, esp since it seems my branch is well aware that i'm already attached (!!) thanks to Ann & Angelia who both saw YY and i at PS when we went for our first ever movie date... ;) Who else saw us? You Yi colleague... Salsa Ryan... All of them saw us on the SAME NIGHT!!!! Gosh! What were they doing out on a Wed night is what I'd like to know.. Haha. And the worrying thing is that they're only the ones that we know of.. ;p
So i'm touched really... That they care.. :) I really feel closer to my salsa / ssc peepz than i ever did to my badminton teammates though we spent years training together!! Strange but true.
Then there's John. (haha)
And i danced with at least 2 guys i've never danced with before (am talking abt fiesta). As well as was invited to 2 different salsa outings tonight!! (Don't recall that happening ever before...) Social nite at LAdanceconnection by Zhi Min & Union by Chee Hao ;) haha, that reminds me: Zhi Min! I just HAPPENED to meet him at the SMU matriculation on thurs coz he was advertising his Child@st11 comm service project, then he appears at fiesta the day after! So coincidental!! AND he's in SMU's latin dance club (a subsidiary of Eurythmix) as well as a member of LADC's performance team; not to mention, he's in e Econs & Business double-degree prog, which is exactly what i hope to get into!!!!! *whew* anything more coincidental and he'll be part of the SMUX team as well... (which i doubt, since he's so fair, so no need to be jealous darling.. haha)
Talk abt strange.. Kim just started a conversation with me on msn *_* suddenly after over a year?! Goodness... Surely God must be testing my resolve to stay stuck to YY......... Haha!!
Which reminds me.. YY and some girl (Jean, he says she's called) were exchanging hp numbers while i was in e salsa 3 class!!! *has eyes at the back of my head* {!!!!!} Kenneth happened to rotate to partner me just then n my exact words to him were "my boyfriend's picking up another girl..." *starts to steam at the ears* wah lau... bet u didn't tell her you're already attached, did you dearest????? *silky smile*
Haiz... Jealousy jealousy!! How can i love him so & know he loves me yet feel that way all in one?? *mixed up* at least i know it's e girl who expressed an interest in him first and not the other way round *fierce glare*
Well we've got a ring now.. *beeeggggg GRIN* hahaha. DEFINITELY another first!!! Now his colleagues think he's getting married coz dearest has put it on his left 4th finger instead of his right ;p loll... although i do believe he's serious (half at least) abt looking at this as a very long engagement (wait.. isn't that a movie?!) instead. Heh. So i have a half boyfriend, half fiance ;) lolx! I like his idea of a honeymoon btw... Swiss alps... Skiing, snowboarding, horseriding & taking the eurotrain to paris to reaffirm our vows atop the effiel tower... *wistful sigh* li & fi are happy to just stay in a deserted hut in the beautiful maldives of clear waters, sparkling skies and romantic isolation for a period of pure....*cough* togetherness. ---->GRIN`
He's told his mom abt me already... Apparently she had lotsa questions like: Is she a high maintainence girl? Is she messy? Can she cook? Is she pampered? etc etc etc... haha! Comments anyone??? *sheepish smile* all i can say, dearest, is that i don't think u know me all that well yet!! hehz~
Tried asking papa et al. what they think of YY... Delia's the most positive :p bryan thinks 4 months *kicks him* papa thinks his manners need improving (pot calling the kettle black!!) and mummy thinks he's nice but not as my bf ;) haha. bleah. she was laughing quite a bit just now actually, coz she was saying she liked that YY would say hi when he arrives and bye when he leaves, except tt she always happens to be in bed when tt occurs... so when i popped my head in to check if she's decent, she sees two heads looking in instead! one on top & one below... 'totem pole'-like ;) lolx.
Anyway, just got a msg that sOmEoNe's waiting for my call.... *oops* so gtg!! Love y'all =)
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